Since then, at my home, we have stopped buying and burning crackers. Also, since then I have been on a mission of discouraging as many people as I could from the ostentatious display of lights, sounds and pollution.
Diwali is about decorating my house with beautiful lights, diyas, rangoli and flowers. Diwali is more of the Kali Puja for us because I am a bong. My dad keeps a fast on this auspicious day and spends the entire day sleeping. I guess that is much needed for he works 7- days a week all throughout the year. I and my mom take this opportunity and have our lunch outside. Thus my mom gets a break from her daily cooking.
In the evening, we decorate our house with marigold flowers and mango leaves. I just love this beautiful combination of yellow and green. I make the customary rangoli. I might not be good at it, but yes, it gives me the immense pleasure of playing with colours! Then as the sunsets, we light the diyas and candles all around our place.
Further, into the night, the Kali Puja takes place at the nearby Kali Bari. We go there so my father can break his fast. Then as a happy family we all feast on the khichdi that is offered to the Goddess.
My Diwali is pretty simple. But I love every bit of it. I have never spent any Diwali away from my home and I really hope I don’t have to, in the future. I know what it is like to be with your family on Diwali. I cherish each and every moment of it.
The following advertisement just made me realize the importance of family even more. Although I am thankfully not away from mom and dad, it just made me see again that why they should be valued even more! Every li’l moment of happiness with them should be made to cherish, forever.
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